Marriage is one of the most important and crucial aspects of family life in Islam, and it is defined as legal bond between man and woman. This means that it is crucial to establish a loving relationship within the marriage in order to ensure happiness. Nonetheless, there could be some issues that can affect the affection as well as the affectionate behavior of the two spouses. This is where dua or prayers to Allah can assist in building up the marriage foundation once again.
When it comes to the rules of marriage, the Quran and Hadith mandate love and care between the spouses. For instance, there are several verses and Hadiths that promote and support love and appreciation between the husband and the wife. Also, this aspect has certain supplications by a wife that should make her husband to love her. These dua are two and are as follows; Both these dua originate from the Islamic tradition and are rated very powerful.
The following dua can help a wife in earning her husband's love and increasing affection between them:The following dua can help a wife in earning her husband's love and increasing affection between them:
Rabbana hab lana min azwajina wa thurriyyatina qurrata a'yun waj ‘alna lilmuttaqeen imama.
"O my Lord! Grant unto us wives and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous." (Quran 25:74)
Remembering this verse and reflecting on its content aids to bring positiveness in conjugal bond of the couples. It asks Allah to grant the couple ease and invite comfort, peace, and virtue into their union.
Additionally, Prophet Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم has taught an immensely rewarding dua specifically for wives to recite for the love of their husbands:Additionally, Prophet Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم has taught an immensely rewarding dua specifically for wives to recite for the love of their husbands:
Oh Allah! I ask you for the love of You and the love of those who love Him, and the deed that will bring me nearer to the love of You.
"O Allah, I seek Your affection for him and the affection which people have for him, and the works which would make me nearer to Him."
This dua enables a wife to directly receive her husband's love from Allah without having to struggle for it. This Prays to Allah to make him develop genuine love and affection for her. Alas, simple words recited with these certain tones, with a sincere attitude, can turn around relationships significantly.
Lastly, what is also mandatory – and perhaps equally crucial – are the wives having to offer a dua, and, in the process, or rather, subsequently, they must also engage in self-introspection concerning their behavior towards their spouses. Taking time to make your husband feel that he is special, appreciated and loved can help to strengthen the loving relationship. The Quran directs women who must protect her husband when he is away, bear with her husband during difficult period / times and enjoy the things of this world and the world to come. They only get Allah's rewards and actual love from their husbands if they discharge their duties as the Shari'ah requires of them.
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